Not the cheesy eighties song, more like a NASA rocket style countdown. Do they still send those things up?
I have FIVE: count them – one, two, three, four and five days until my last chemo session. Every day after that is a day into recovering from the bleurgh that is my current state of being. Grateful though I am that having chemo hasn’t included the full range of side effects that I am aware that others suffer, I am more than ready to be able to concentrate for more than a couple of hours, stay awake all day and sleep through a night. I sound a bit like a baby, don’t I? Anyone want to adopt me?
Looking back over the last few months, I do occasionally think to myself: ‘What have you accomplished?’ I was determined to use my time well. After all, we have all read about the various folk who have done crazy things like run marathons whilst undergoing treatment for cancer. (Mind you, hats off to anyone that runs marathons anyway!) I had a variety of ideas how I could help at work and things I could do at home.
My point being, to misquote Robert Burns, is that the best laid plans often go awry. I can’t say there has been much in the way of grief, but there has been pain and a distinct lack of joy – not that cancer promises any anyway, I merely hoped to keep myself occupied and my mind (and perhaps body) active. Fatigue and a lack of direction scuppered those plans. Not actually having a reason to wake up every the morning is highly demoralising in terms of keeping active, mentally or physically. Since my main hobby consists of reading books, it wasn’t as if I even had to leave the house to do that either.
That said, I now DO have something to look forward to and more reasons to get myself up and out. After the usual three week cycle, I won’t be subjected to toxic drugs and head back into the cycle of side effects, instead I shall be heading upwards and upwards and ever more healthily upwards. As to the reason to get myself up, I shall be alone as of the 5th of March and will therefore need to get the dogs taken care of myself rather than rely on my sister to deal with them. I freely admit to lazy-itis in this regard, knowing she will get up and deal with them at 07.30 whilst I stay in bed.
I have also been informed that I must return to work, at least part-time, to ensure that I continue to get paid. Now this makes me more than a little angry. Having made the effort over the last several months to spend two days at work each week, I am now being told that I must be in work three weeks after my final treatment! Granted, at the start of the treatment I had no idea what the results of chemo would be and my discussions consisted of stating that my chemo would be completed by the end of February so that has become THE date. Although I must BE at work, there is no actual plan for what I must be doing or schedule of hours I am expected to attend, so this is all brewery stuff right now.
And breathe…
Sticking with the positive aspects, I am looking forward to: having more energy to complete tasks; being able to taste my food; growing eye lashes and eye brows again; having hair (simply because the hat/scarf dilemma is a bugger); getting out and about without worrying about catching something; NOT hanging around a hospital for most of the day.
Other treatments do continue after February 5th, with me still needing infusions of one drug until October and tablets for five years. I will also need another operation to remove the chemoport that is used in lieu of attempting to find a vein in my arm for each round of chemo. So, whilst I am not out of the woods entirely in terms of treatment, I can certainly look forward with more enthusiasm than I have done for the last few months.
To a Mouse
The best-laid schemes o’ mice an ‘men
Gang aft agley,
An’ lea’e us nought but grief an’ pain,
For promis’d joy!
(The best laid schemes of Mice and Men
oft go awry,
And leave us nothing but grief and pain,
For promised joy!)
Robert Burns
Scottish national poet (1759 – 1796)